DEAR ABBY: We lost our 16-year-old daughter two years ago to leukemia. It’s been a difficult two years. I am writing to ask if there are rules of etiquette for visiting a loved one at the ...

DEAR ABBY: We lost our 16-year-old daughter two years ago to leukemia. It’s been a difficult two years. I am writing to ask if there are rules of etiquette for visiting a loved one at the cemetery?

Abby hears from a bereft parent whose relative ruined daughter's headstone with decoration that left stains, while a reader hopes to inspire with example of reaching out and gathering with friends.

The US pop superstar, 66, posted photos to her Instagram Story, including one of Ciccone's green marble gravestone, writing alongside it "homecoming".

DEAR ABBY: We lost our 16- year-old daughter two years ago to leukemia. It's been a difficult two years. I am writing to ask if there are rules of etiquette for visiting a loved one at the cemetery?